Apr 20, 2025
Welcome to Shoshin, my journal of lessons from this journey we call "life".
Perspective
“ An true friend will stab you in the front. "
- Oscar Wilde
Story
I had my wisdom teeth removed last week.
I rested to the extreme,
doing the bare minimum,
eating like shit,
and getting nothing done.
Then two days ago, I hit up a friend to rock climb.
He said yes.
I took a quick nap and when he showed up,
I tried to bail.
But he didn’t let me.
He called me out on my bullshit.
I'm so glad he did.
I had my best day that week.
Climbing all the way to the top,
Learning this sick ass hip throw judo move that I fell in love with.
He pushed me to unlock the “muscle up”.
I hesitated, but he believed in me more than myself.
He pushed and motivated me.
I ended up making more progress in an hour than I did in prior months.
And if I keep at it, I’ll probably have it down by next week.
Like damn.
Become
It’s rare to find friends who care enough to call you out on your bullshit.
To stab you in the front, with the sole intent of growth.
Just know, if you find someone like that,
That's a friend for life.
Remember, its who you become on the journey.
Others.